“I want to show people that Muslim women do not need to be dark, drab and hidden in the background. They can be vibrant and full of life.”

— Naijla F

Meet Naijla, whose radiance captivates everyone she encounters. We were fortunate to meet through her participation in the Women's Emerging Leaders program held by HandsOnWSNC. With an undeniable aura of professionalism and warmth, Naijla effortlessly embodies the qualities of someone you can't help but be interested in engaging with. Her confidence is evident in the way she carries herself, a testament to her unwavering belief in her abilities and the value she brings to any conversation or setting.

As a Muslim woman, Naijla fearlessly challenges stereotypes, breaking free from the misconceptions that often surround her identity. With her choice of vibrant clothing and hijabs, she stands testament to the fact that Muslim women need not be confined to dark, drab colors or hidden in the background. Instead, she boldly embraces her faith and cultural heritage, showcasing the beauty and diversity that exists within her community.

Naijla's infectious smile and laughter are windows into her genuine joy and zest for life. Her laughter resonates with an undeniable authenticity, revealing her inner light and uplifting those around her. Approaching Naijla feels natural and effortless, as her kind nature instantly puts others at ease. Whether engaging in discussions about leadership, diversity, or the challenges faced by women, Naijla's unique perspective and unwavering positivity make her an inspiring voice worth listening to.

Naijla serves as a beacon of inspiration. Through her unapologetic presence, she breaks down barriers and opens doors for others to follow. Her professional demeanor, combined with her vibrant spirit, exemplify the power of embracing one's true self and refusing to be defined by societal norms giving true empowerment to our differences and embracing the full spectrum of our identities.

I literally started this blog by taking a massive, slow, deep breath in followed by a slow breath out to get my mind in the right place. You see, seeing that my last blog post was back on the 30th of May made me slightly stressed. With my deep breath in though, and even as the continue deep breathing as I write, it's so much easier to focus on all of the good things that have happened and all of the progress that has been made in that 16 day gap. 

So often we get wrapped up in all of the ways we failed or in everything we've done wrong. We minimize our progress and growth because we aren't exactly where we want to be in this moment. By doing that, by letting ourselves be overwhelmed, we are also giving up our joy and strength. 

No matter what you've failed with, no matter the mistakes you've made, your shortcomings or your missteps - you don't have to live in them. You've been given the opportunity of grace and redemption. Just as we have been extended grace, we can give ourselves grace on occasion now too! 

It's so encouraging to breathe deep and know that I am more than my mistakes and short comings - even if they are as big as mistreating someone or as small as not blogging as often as I "should." And, yes, just like "with great strength comes great responsibility" the fact that we have the opportunity for grace and redemption doesn't give us the reasons to just act however we choose. We should always carry the integrity of our lives. 

In those moments of overwhelm where you feel yourself sinking into despair, shame and regret stop yourself. Take a few deep breaths and remember the good. Let yourself smile and sink into grace.